Caring for seniors
As people age, their need for additional safety measures increases. Older people are targets for crime, take more medications regularly and may become forgetful or confused, leaving them vulnerable to accidents and injury.
Senior care specialists point to signs that an elderly relative needs assistance, including such things as weight loss, unhealthy hygiene, a fall resulting in a debilitating injury, unexplained wandering from home or a recommendation from a healthcare provider. Advocates urge children with aging parents to discuss the options for elder care before the need arises.
"If elderly parents are capable, by all means, involve them in an open discussion of issues directly related to their future," said Mirca Liberti, co-founder of Children of Aging Parents. "If they seem reluctant at first, persist. It's far better to air their fears and yours now, while they are still need little assistance."
Caregivers also can help assure the continued health of senior relatives by keeping in mind the additional safety requirements needed at home. Having pension and Social Security checks directly deposited in banks and installing peep holes in doors can help deter crime. Reviewing prescriptions regularly with doctors and using the same pharmacy, if possible, helps reduce the risk of harmful drug interactions.
Seniors have frailer bones, so a simple slip or tumble could result in dire consequences. Statistics from the Centers for Disease Control show that after car accidents, falls are the greatest cause of death among Americans ages 65 to 84.
To help prevent slips and fall, stock kitchen shelves so items are within reach, remove throw or scatter rugs and install grab bars in bathtubs and showers. Keep the path from the bedroom to the bathroom because seniors frequently need to use the restroom during the night. Also remove electrical cords from traffic areas and keep snow and ice clear from driveways and sidewalks.
For additional information on caring for elderly relatives visit the Children of Aging Parents Web site at www.caps4caregivers.org.
